Child Custody and Visitation

Protecting Your Parental Rights And Your Relationship With Your Child
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Child Custody And Visitation Attorney In Hickory, North Carolina

Finding Resolution In Difficult Times

For many parents facing divorce, their main concern is how the end of their marriage will affect their children. Ideally, divorcing parents will be able to work together to minimize the impact of divorce on their children and begin a cooperative effort to parent as best as they can separately.


At The Stiltner Law Firm, PLLC, we bring a positive approach to resolving child custody and parenting plan matters. Attorney Gary W. Stiltner understands the concern that divorcing parents have regarding their children. Whether you expect to be the custodial parent or you wish to secure valuable time with your child through the creation of a parenting plan, we will work to protect your interests and your relationship with your child.

Contact The Stiltner Law Firm, PLLC to schedule a consultation with a lawyer today. 828-532-3700

Understanding how custody decisions are determined

Courts will designate physical and legal custody. Physical custody refers to where the child spends his or her days and nights. Legal custody refers to the right of a parent to participate in decisions regarding the child’s education, religious upbringing and medical decisions. In both areas, custody can be shared or one parent can be awarded sole custody. North Carolina courts prefer to keep both parents involved in a child’s life whenever possible.


If an agreement between both parents cannot be reached amicably, a judge will make decisions based on the best interests of the child. Factors included in that decision are:


  • The child’s relationship with each parent
  • The health and well-being of each child
  • The child’s developmental needs
  • Each parent’s home and surrounding environment
  • The wishes of the child depending upon their age and maturity
  • Whether the child has siblings and where they will be staying


It is important to know that you and your child’s other parent have the ability to control what your parenting situation looks like following divorce. If parents are able to work together during their divorce to develop a parenting plan that meets the best interests of their child, they can retain control over how it is structured. Disputes occur when one parent requests more from a custodial plan than the other parent wishes to give.

Determining Child Support In North Carolina

In most cases, a noncustodial parent will be ordered to pay child support to the custodial parent. North Carolina law stipulates that child support be paid until the child reaches age 18 (or 20 if he or she has not graduated high school). The court determines the amount of child support to be paid monthly by using the North Carolina Child Support Guidelines. Factors that affect child support include each parent’s income, daycare expenses and which parent covers the child’s medical insurance.


It is important to note that determining the amount of support often involves more than simply plugging numbers into a formula. Families may have extenuating circumstances that require exceptions to the child support guidelines. Whether you expect to receive child support or pay it, we will protect your interests and those of your child. Where you land on a child support order can significantly impact your overall financial foundation in post-divorce life. Working with a knowledgeable family law attorney who understands the guidelines and when it makes sense to deviate from them is crucial.

Fighting For Your Best Interest

Your circumstances are unique, but with us, we are equipped with the expertise and experience needed to fight all types of child custody and visitation matters. We are in your corner through every step of your negotiations or litigation, prepared to go the extra mile to give you the best chance of success. If you would like to discuss your case with our team, reach out today. We’d be more than happy to help you and your family find peace.

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